Tis the season of Love!

As we exit Capricorn season (January), we enter the season of Love. I, on one hand think that Valentine’s Day is Bull Shit. I mean really, making up in one day what your man/woman should be doing the other 300 some odd days of the year don't cut it for me. Don't get me wrong I love love love flowers and gifts but I don't want anything just because the calendar says its time. I get and give gifts year round. I kinda like the flare for no reason. Let me come home to flowers, balloons and a new bracelet in June. Not because he has to, but because he saw something that he wanted me to have. There will be a lot of insecure chicks all over they "man" (and I use the term loosely) wondering when, where, and what they will be doing on Valentine’s Day. You know them chicks kill me! They are the same chicks that put up with a nigga and all his Bull Shit just to say "I gotta Man". They believe Steve Harvey books are gospel. Use they boyfriend last name, and call him husband. And they blame the other chick for they man cheating and still stay. The same ones that think its ok for a dude to spend hundreds of dollars on them in 1 night but aint paid child support in 8 months. I could go on and on but I digress. I also know everybody aint like me, common sense aint that common, it is what it is, blah blah blah, and it aint easy being green, yeah I get it. Ladies, don't base your entire existence on how a man treats you. It’s not smart. Carrying on any type of relationship with a man and not having a label for it, is not smart. And I hate a dumb ass broad! There should never be a question of what I am to you. A man will inadvertently state his intentions with you from day one. Let's not try and change his stance. It won't work. I guess I go in on women because I hold us to a higher standard than men. We are the superior sex. Knowing how to play our position, when to work it, and when to take the L to make sure it gets worked. It’s definitely a skill you’re born with; or not.

I admit Adult relationships aren't for everybody. Come on now, who would I write about if we were all in respectable mature relationships? But don’t listen to me. I'm drunk half the time and dealing with my own problems the other. I'm just trying to save you some time before next thing you know you checking facebook all hours of the night and creating fake twitter accounts to follow him and the chicks he follow. All I'm saying is one day don't define a relationship. Him actually saying let's be in one kinda does. That's another blog though. LOL No on some real shit, Valentine’s Day shouldn't make it if it’s fucked up or brake what's good. So if all you keep coming up with are complaints, hurt feelings, and disappointment from being dogged out, I blame you! Take some responsibility and get a clue BEFORE you get another man.

Over the next few weeks I will be blogging about relationships and music, since this is the season. If you have any relationship subject you want to hear about. Let's talk hit me on Twitter or email.