Its YOU

Look people, I am so tired of all these guys talking shit about us(women), then have the nerve to say “hook me up wit yo home girl”.  Guys here’s a little nugget of information I’m sure you have heard before – You get what you pay for. Meaning if you don’t invest time or money or some effort in to a woman, you won’t get a quality woman. This is the main reason you get them Ratchets and Low Life females that treat you like shit! Come on. The funny thing is, is that the main guys that put on that front like they will never pay for a date or buy a chick a gift are the same ones tricking off what little money they do get to get some ass.  Let’s not bull shit each other.  It’s some women that will put up with anything just to say “I got a man!”. Men always will take advantage of her. While on the other hand, it’s some women that will ONLY go after a man with money. Let’s be clear, those women aint worth a red cent.  I’m going to break down the dynamics of a “Traditional" relationship in 3 parts - Meeting, Courting, and Marriage. The man meets a girl. Determines if he likes her and wants to get to know her. Then with natural progression and time they get married. It was always the man’s role to provide for his family and the woman’s role to take care of him in return. That was all the concept of marriage was before. The most important part is that there was no sex before the man and woman came to this agreement. You promise to take care of me, I promise to give you sex -Boom! Bam! Pow! Marriage!

That’s all it was. Then at some point in time women started to give up sex without that promise or any promise for that matter and that’s where things got fucked up.  Don’t get me wrong I am married and I work, and we had sex before we got married.  If and when our relationship progressed to that next level was totally on me. I set the pace as to when and where our relationship was going to go. So when I hear guys and all this trash talk all I think about is who is actually opening her legs to you? What dumb ass broad (and yall know I hates me a dumb ass broad) is fucking you? Uhhhggg!  

 

Guys all I’m saying is it aint tricking if she’s worth it.  There is not any shame in spending money or time on a woman if she is worth putting that time or effort in to her.  Be smarter about it. Be respectful. Clearly women’s standards have been lowered in the last 30 years.  So I’m sure it don’t take much to make her smile.  Despite popular belief every chick is not ratchet, or a slut bucket.  Stop being cheap and take a girl out. No doing dutch. Spend $50 on a first date. Open a damn door. Tell her she smells good. Even if you get nothing(Sex) out of it. That’s the least you can do for a girl if you want her time. And ladies let’s stop walking around acting like yo coochie is the last one on Earth. I know entirely too many chicks that are beautiful, smart and have they shit together. And they gettin snatched up like a fresh pair of J’s out here. If you're single and think all niggas aint shit - Bitch it’s you. I have had too many great guys cross my path to think that. Hell even Grewsom made some young ladies Valentine’s Day special with only a $5 budget. Getting and keeping a great person is not that hard as long as YOU are comfortable with yourself. We are all flawed. No one person is perfect.  So the next time I hear anyone complain about the opposite sex I have one answer to ALL of their complaints –  It’s You!