Why is it that when I see a sad story on TV, I always find some kind of redeeming quality about the character. Don't matter how fucked up they are I feel sad or empathy for whatever it is that they are going through. However in real life if it were the same story line going on with someone I know, chances are I would cut all ties because of stupid behavior. Y'all know I am a strong advocate of not judging any one for what they choose to do or how they do it. Hey it ain't my life. I make and live with my decisions good, bad and ugly. Some people might call my actions or behavior stupid, but I would never dare let MY stupid behavior affect them, or infringe on their life. My own personal issues I struggle with everyday are just that. Mines! See my redeeming quality is that I learn. I evolve. I grow. I've been there and done that. There's a saying "I'm old enough to know better, but young enough to do again!" The reason I love that saying so much is that its OK to do "it" again. As long as the formula you use when presented with the problem that arose the first time is different. We can't keep doing the same things the same way and expect something different. Or just out right do something wrong and disrespectful, and expect to come out winning. Even if you do something harmful to someone with out any malice behind it, if it keeps happening its still not right. You are wrong. Nothing about that is redeeming.
This week tells the story of the last days of Jesus. From his celebrating Passover to the betrayal of a friend to his trial and eventual conviction and crucifixion. Whether you think this is just another movie on TV or believe these were actual factual events. We can all learn a lot from someone that always finds a redeeming quality in people. He did after all forgive Judus. I'm just not quite there yet.
Happy Passover or Easter! Enjoy your Holiday!
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