Happy Mothers Day

We all know Mother’s day is coming and it’s the time of year to celebrate the great mothers surrounding us. Our own, surrogate, auntie, Grandmom or otherwise. That mom figure in your life should not go unrewarded for her unconditional love she shows you all the time. Something as simple as a card or flowers will completely brighten up one Mother’s day. Remember when you were little and made your mom a gift? I don’t know about your mom but mines loves things like that, even now. Hell my mom would be grateful for all her kids to be together in the same room. (Aint gonna happen by the way) I’m just saying, it doesn’t take a lot to make your mom happy on Mother’s day. I am a firm believer that Mothers Day should be spent with ones respective mother. Ladies let’s not get upset with men if they want to spend time or a large amount of money on his “mommy”(LOL). I figure as long as the lights are on its ok to splurge a little on her birthday or mother’s day. Besides if it wasn’t for her, you wouldn’t have him; and if he is a good man, a big part of that is because of her. So cop a Mother In Law card, thank her for giving you him, sign it and send it with him, before you and your mom have your girls day. Even if you have kids, you guys can spend the holiday together, but let that man come to some kind of compromise. Most moms want to do them on Mother’s day alone. So guys, you and the kids might end up at Grandma’s house anyway. Guys if you have a baby mama, and you might not like this, but it is your responsibility to get “baby mama” a gift from your baby. Whatever the status of the relationship, if your baby is well taken care of, you need to celebrate that. No matter what the new chick says. That’s the mother of your kids, the new chick needs to STFU. So team up with the kiddie, make a card, have them sign it and send it on over to baby mama. And guys even in your new relationship, if your girl takes care of your kid like it’s her own, and put up with baby mama, make sure your kid acknowledges her too. If she is Step Mom material, let her know. Or you might find out that the babysitter you once had on the weekends when Jr would get dropped off, ain’t too available now. If you have older kids, talk to them and ask what they want to get their mother and do your fatherly duties and finance that situation. I’m not talking diamond earrings and Gucci bags or anything like that, but you need to make it happen. My niece and nephews get me a gift every year on Mother’s day from them. I think it’s because they know if anything happens to my sister that I’m the one that’s gonna take them in so they want to keep the evil aunt happy. LOL I think it’s sweet, not needed, but sweet. It doesn’t take a lot to make the moms around you happy. Sometimes even a simple Happy Mother’s Day will do. Happy Mother’s Day